Example 1 of Crymunication – Environmental Awareness

Crymunication
Crymunication – Environmental Awareness
Crymunication – Cyclic Confirmation
Crymunication – Process Overload

This example is how women try to communicate that they are feeling sad in the environment they are in. So let’s say it’s the end of a school year or some sort of passing of time where these girls, or at least some, are going to part ways. Now they are feeling sad about this and perhaps nervous about the changes. Then it goes down like so… one girl will be saying goodbye to one of her closer friends and she’ll start crying, which of course will get that close friend to also start crying. Then girls around them will start crying because they feel it’s so sad/beautiful. Then girls who don’t really care will start crying because they kind of feel bad that they don’t care. Then girls who are feeling alone because they have no one to cry with will start crying. And finally girls with no clue what is going on will cry because everyone else is crying. All of this is to say that in their current area there is a lot of sadness; even if the sadness is almost irrelevant to them.

A great example of this is in the movies. I’m not saying guys don’t cry at the movies, they don’t cry at the movies though they just get allergies (j/k), what I am trying to say is that it’s more common for girls to cry the movies because of their ability to Crymunicate the sadness of their environment. Think of it like a lighthouse signaling you that you are near the shore. Their crying is trying to signal you that you are near sadness. This is the opposite with guys, who try, with all their might, not to cry in front of any other guy… ever. And if a guy does end up crying in front of another as long as there is a good reason neither will talk about it. However if there is a stupid reason, mockery might follow.

So what are guys suppose to do in this situation. Nothing. Don’t say a word. Be careful where you look but be double careful not to appear to be unaware of the situation. This is dangerous. Avoid this one. Sometimes it’s sweet and you just have to be there and say nothing while other times this might turn into anger and you’ll want to flee. Be careful, use judgment.

Now earlier I said girls Crymunicate to express truth. In this scenario they are expressing a true emotion of sadness. It’s not a secrete or factual sort of truth but they are compelled to express it. They are compelled to express this true. This is why Crymunication is a very beautiful thing.